From FB statuses, most of the times I created a blog entry out of it..My blog is all about my journey as an Asian Muslim Spinster..ups..downs..
Not a famous blog bcoz:
1) I'm yet to get my nose job & liposuction..
2) I'm a plain Asian Muslim Spinster - not a hot Momma or sexy tai-tai married to ang moh..
3) I'm not a VVIP or daughter of a Tycoon..
4) I'm just telling my story so that people around able to try to understand what I feel; not to gain money or popularity..
Some people found my writings as just rantings..when comes to spinster, all are ranting..haiiiiiiizzzzz..some even told me - do you need to have such blog??😼😼😼😼
To me, I need to have such blog bcoz people around me keep on saying that being unmarried, I have no great issues & challenges in life..not like being married or widowed or divorced..which I totally disagreed..Bcoz I have a fair share of great issues & challenges in life..especially when I'm living in a conservative Asian Muslim community where being unmarried means I'm not a noble woman despite my first name means "Noble one"..I'm considered as an incomplete woman bcoz I don't give birth to any soul..They meant married then, pregnant & not other way around..lalalalaaaaaa..😝😝😝😝😝😝
I really need to address this matter as an Asian Muslim Spinster..that needs to be said out aloud..There's no difference being a Mrs, a divorcee, a widow & a Spinster..all Marital Status have issues & challenges..Some commented that I'm just overly emotional..drama Queen..those comments, babey NOT affecting me..not stopping me from telling my story as an Asian Muslim Spinster bcoz I chose to tell all my experiences in life..♕ ♕ ♕
What so good it will be???😇😇😇😇😇😇
At least I tried to bring awareness to my conservative Asian Muslim community about my existence as a Spinster..who knows some people will STOP bugging me to get married..STOP trying to match-make me with someone more than friends..who knows few people will STOP interrogate & instigate my parents to force me to get married..STOP saying "What a waste!" to me..All bcoz I chose to stay unmarried for good..😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
I can get married for my parents' sake but I know that I will always be unhappy being married to a dictator..worst, all men get married to have at least a child - heard from majority of the married men I've spoken to, met & known who hid their true feelings from their spouses bcoz they do not wish to offend their spouses' feelings..that part, I cannot help any of them bcoz I cannot give birth to any soul myself..Don't pity me for not being a mother..I'm glad I'm not a mother especially with nowadays children's outrageous behaviours..Thank you but NO THANKS! I might not be mommy monster, I might be she-devil..👹👹👹👹👹👹
I'm aware that my parents can always marry me off without me knowing (akak nak yg mata biru cam Tom Cruise atau mamat Arab Dubai...boleh tak, ummi, daddy?? 😁 😁 😁) but seriously, I don't wish to drink bleach or cut my wrist or hang myself or let myself drown in the reservoir just to run away from such arranged marriage..my parents know what I can do..that's why my parents DO NOT pursue such thing eventhough some nosey people have suggested it - "just marry her off to someone..end of your responsibility as parents".. *tak kelakar ehk*😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😈😈😈😈😈😈
My blog is "Senorita Spinster"..Google it..Happy reading..*Promosi tak terhad*
