Some people told me,
"How I envy your life..You can travel anytime you want..You can shop as much as you wish..You have the freedoom to do whatever you wish.."..
My reply was,
"Alhamdulillah..But please don't look at my life that way which cause the envy in your heart..Look at my life this way - my way :
My travelling is in exchange for the marriage I don't get to have..
My shopping is in exchange for the children I don't give birth to..
My freedom is in exchange for the husband I don't get to love & be loved in life..
Look at another angle -
if I spend all my salary, I don't have a husband who will top-up my transport & give me meal money/allowance..I have to put aside some money for transport & meals..I have no one sponsoring my airlines ticket or pay half the price for me..I don't have honeymoon or babymoon..I don't have annual family overseas trips..Each time I travelled, I felt like attending business thingy at overseas..work work work bcoz Im always travelling alone..
The best part to consider that my life is never better than yours is that I have no children to do'a for me after I die..compared to you who have children who will do'a for you after you die..inshaaa Allah!
Before having any envy about me & my life again, think what I don't really have which you all are having in life..Who is luckier..me or you???..Don't look at the fun part but look at the right facts in life..
Still, Ive no regret for being unmarried, single & childless bcoz this is the best life God's willing to give me..So, Alhamdulillah..God gives the greatest battles only to the toughest & strongest soldiers!"
